SEX

in a reality show,some men were given 1month 2 woo n impress a very sexy girl named mariam.
it went on for some days n then 2 everybody's amazament,a fact was discovered that mariam was born a man.
this offcourse pissed all the men n they sued the producer....who ended up paying all men for the damages(????)
is this good coz science can defeat nature n give a desirable n deceiving end product with matching emotions n psychae?
or is this bad coz someone was so unhappy with his indivisuality that he went through a series of awfully painful n critical surgeries to demolish his own self?
is sex of a person really so important?
is that all 2 anyone?male of female gender?
what abt thoughts?attitude?mindset?believes?feelings?
is there just black or white?male or female?
cant there be gray?
no doctor on earth can hide a male n bring out a perfect female....body n soul.
u anyways remain in between.
why not cherish what u hv n learn what u dont n there by reach the middle ground?
can not priding urself n demolishing ur identity be justified?